Mercy and the Boys: Micah's Turn

Four suits our Micah so very well. He just seems to have changed so much in the last year. His birthday was July 7th, and he's relishing being "older" now. He even seems to look older than before as he's grown taller and slimmer, a big change from the "tank" that he was a year ago. :o) He's still quite strong (more so than he realizes himself), and has been known to accomplish feats his two big brothers could not simply by his sheer power. Micah has a kind heart though, and does not use his strength to purposefully hurt others. He enjoys playing with his brothers, but sometimes just would rather play alone so that he can do what *he* wants to do instead of always following what Joshua and Luke want him to do. It's funny how each of the boys picks a character that they want to portray when they're playing imaginary games whether it's Hero Factory, Ninjago, Super Heroes or whatever. Micah is rarely satisfied with being one character. If his big brothers want to be the character that he wants to be, he'll just choose to not play with them and play his own game instead where he is all the characters himself! He's forever asking Daddy and me to play these imaginary games with him. I'm always the token female character and he's all the male characters at the same time. Of course, this can prove to be somewhat confusing as he switches personalities, but he's usually good at telling me which character he's representing at the time and what role I'm supposed to be playing in that moment as well. It's like he has the scenes all set in his mind and he really just wants someone to watch him act it out. Ad-libbing from me is not usually welcome if it doesn't fit in with his well thought out plan. He is very fun to watch, though, as he acts out his different ninja moves or flies from one place to another to get the "bad guys". He takes it all very seriously. :o) And he's extremely persistent in communicating his ideas. His imagination is wonderfully developed and a joy to experience. One of his latest things is for him to pretend he's done or seen something "back when he was 5." For example, "When I was five, I could read and write." Joshua responds, "Micah, you've never been 5." Micah will very straight-faced respond, "I know. I'm just pretending!" Micah really is a joy to be around, and he's not so big that he's not still super cute. Lately he's become more and more helpful with Mercy, too. In the past, I couldn't really trust him to be gentle enough with her, but the two of them have been playing more and more together. It's really sweet and super helpful to me, especially during school. I'm not sure if Micah has become more gentle or if Mercy has just gotten tougher, maybe it's a combination of both. Whatever the case, I love to watch the two of them playing together. I will be doing some pre-K activities with Micah starting this week (as we begin the new school year), and Mercy will be joining in with us for some of those. Micah is really bright and I think he will respond very well to all the things I have planned for him. This summer he would beg me for a new workbook to do his own "schoolwork" in like his brothers were doing. But every time I gave him a new workbook he would do the entire book in one sitting! He catches on to things very quickly and absolutely can't wait to be able to read himself. I'm not planning to push him in this at all, but I wouldn't be surprised if he's not reading by his next birthday for sure. Micah has grown up in other ways this past year as well. There are times (especially lately) when he's the first to help me in doing things. He prides himself in being a good helper for Mommy and Daddy. And though, there are still remnants of 3 year old Micah that comes out from time to time, I see him over and over again choosing self-control over pitching fits. He really has grown up so much in the recent months. With his active imagination, contagious laugh, infectious sense of humor, and desire to learn and grow, I'm really looking forward to watching my Micah-boy over the next year. He brings much laughter to us all, and we're so glad he's a part of our family!

The day before Micah's birthday we took our family outing to a local park. The boys visit one side of the park pretty regularly, but on the other side of this huge park are actually small kids' amusement rides and a little fun place. This was the first time we had played in this fun place, and the kids had a blast. It was perfect for Micah's birthday, there was a bouncy house, ball pit, several slides, and a few other things to play on/with.

The actual day of Micah's birthday, July 7th, we began the day with birthday donuts, had McDonald's for lunch, and made yummy pancakes for supper after a little party with his friends. The party theme was Batman in particular, but the other boys came dressed up as whichever superhero they wanted to; it was great fun. One of Micah's favorite gifts was his new Green Lantern costume. He immediately put it on and wore it for the rest of the day. His brothers put their costumes on right after that and we were in for a great day!

Our family is definitely well protected!

Another great gift was his Batman utility belt; he loved it! It officially became part of his Green Lantern costume right away. He was very proud of both gifts.

We played some great super hero games. The kids had to tie up the "bad guys" with rolls of toilet paper to see which team could do it the fastest. Then they played pin the bat on Batman (thanks to Gayle's fantastic art skills!). We finished up with a super hero scavenger hunt for their party favors. Each group had a clue that they had to figure out in order to find their gifts. Super fun!